My husband is on call today, gone the entire weekend. I recently left my family, friends and state to move across the country to be with my best friend and boyfriend during his residency. II do wish you luck. My family supported me in this. I learned, growing up, that very principle, that you HAD to marry a member or your marriage was doomed. Break up with her. It is difficult to learn to have no expectations towards him, even though our mindset towards medicine is the same. I figured he may still be finding his feet in his residency and as we grow closer, he might start putting in more effort. Religion is super important to LDS people but there's also alot of exmormons.
He is an Anesthesiologist. Your relationship with your family will be healed, and so will you. That deal with polygamy explained. As Joanna said, marriage takes some work no matter what, but being married to your best friend, and listening to the spirit brings great blessings. Honestly a lovely man but the sheer focus of time and attention has meant there is little if any left for me, I'm lucky if I get 5 minutes in comparison with some nights of 2 hours going on and on and on about work. After my divorce I dated Mormon men в disastrous.
We are here looking for the other people who live this life and understand how difficult and, at times, painful this career is with which to live since the majority of people think like you until they see our families in action. It has just made me realize that these formulas a lot of us Mormons learn growing up about how to have a happy marriage are, well, crap. Help answer questions Learn more.
I know "Meet the Mormons" isn't what I'm looking for I went through a very similar experience earlier this year and the community was extremely helpful. He is studying to get into a residency program and I struggle to get his time. Once he's out of training, though, the medical marriage is much like any other marriage and the success strategies are really all the same. Not one little bit.