She sacrificed two years of her life to convert people to the religion. My husband has gone from proselytizing and thinking he knows it all to a real spiritual seeker, albeit with a strong testimony in the church. You should take all of the above advice to heart and follow it just in case, so you can make a smooth transition should it ever be necessary. Besides the obvious brain damage that you will be made to suffer your entire married life, there are future kids to think about.
If you are both in high school, she may refuse altogether. In fact, the church is designed to help people come unto Christ, who is the only one who can change our hearts and help us overcome ourselves to come back to him. Listen, you are in a bad situation and it just has not come to a head yet. I do not text or call him frequently-- I'll send him the occasional message, but generally I let him initiate contact and dictate the pace. Gem With Flaws Joined: While I do talk to my boyfriend everyday, it's usually not for long periods of time. They value femininity, motherhood, and masculinity in men.
It will only get worse. Some Mormons believe the Telestial Kingdom will be littered with spouses who refused to get baptized. The important part of finding a partner to marry does not, in my opinion, revolve around whether or not you are of the same religion. This can keep the relationship from getting too exclusive, and spending time with more people can give you a wider variety of things to do. That one I haven't asked him about yet though since I feel like it would be a little presumptuous and might seem like I'm rushing things commitment-wise. He's just wrapping up his first year. Even if she does, you'll be the reason in her family's eyes.
Now I feel sadness for losing out because of fear, and a cult mindset. My kids have run as far away from medicine as possible in terms of a career and my daughter only dates people who have balance in their lives. It's called selfishness and inability to set priorities. Their values and the values of popular western culture are wildly disparate, which can be tough for them to navigate early in life. He ended up cheating with one of the nurses and his wife left him. Can he see the good in it, or does he focus on the more controversial aspects. Well if she knew or ever found out, in her eyes you'll be a loathsome perverted deviant in need of sex addiction counseling.