If she is open to questioning her faith, perhaps she can chase you down. Do you work Easter, the day after your baby is born, weekends, nights. I'm the overly busy person.
Want to add to the discussion. That isn't fair on you, and again will create stress and a stress point in the relationship. There's definitely strength in kindred spirits. Maybe watch "Going Clear" with her. We keep getting more and more wedding invitations to our apt and with each one I feel like my dreams float farther and farther away. You are a good person. Is it just the expectation that the SOs of people in these fields are on the backburner. And to clarify, what I mean by physical demand is something that requires energy I don't have, like having sex or going for a walk. If she doesn't care that you aren't a member now, if your relationship goes on long enough, she is going to care eventually. With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil.